Instructions for giving the Perfect Blow Job

Throughout the years, I have gotten many compliments on my fellatio giving abilities, so I decided to put some tips together for the girls and guys out there that want to improve or perfect their skills.

•The number one thing I cannot stress enough is to ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING. If you don't like it, he won't either. Think of this activity as one of the most passionate gifts you can give to him. So be enthusiastic about it and really savor the moment! It really helps to connect if every once in a while you look at him in the eyes while you’re pleasuring him.

•Rubbing the testicles gently at the same time is also very pleasurable and will be greatly enjoyed by your partner. Cup them, rub them gently, even tug on them a bit. This will surely enhance the experience. However, keep in mind WHAT YOU ARE HANDLING. There is a very thin line between being firm and being rough and you should always be mindful that this is a very sensitive area.

•I know you boys and girls have heard, have told or been told this one more than once but it is sooo important: NO TEETH. Teeth serve many other functions but should really be kept out of the picture when performing oral sex..

•Make sure his penis is really wet. So making sure that your tongue is really wet, lick the entire shaft of his penis. Also, remember you can always use a lubricant in addition to your own saliva.

•Breathing on his cock and blowing gently with your hot breath can be a little variation to give him a different sensation. You can use this in addition to the sucking and licking and alternate them.

•Pausing to tease him while he is fully aroused or before he gets completely hard is also a great way to build momentum. You can tease him by licking and kissing his inner thighs, his balls and giving his cock a complete tongue bath to put him right on the edge. Then take his whole penis completely into your mouth. Remember to also use your tongue to stimulate the head while it's in your mouth.

•Something that invariably will throw him over the edge is to suck on his penis, slowly take the penis out of your mouth out and start a circular hand motion around the head of the penis with your hand before you take him in your mouth again. Satisfaction guaranteed!

•Also, don't go on mute the whole time you are performing oral sex. It's good to stop every once in a while to tell him how much you love sucking on his cock, how good he tastes, asking if he likes the way you're sucking him, etc.

Lastly, it's a great idea to add oral sex toys to your repertoire to add a little spice. There is a great variety of flavored lubricants, flavored condoms, tongue vibes, tongue teasers, oral vibrators and sex toys like the Sqweel Wheel which, coupled with your skills, will give your partner the Perfect Blow Job.

Now, here's a little assignment for my submissive males, call me and tell me what you've learned...